v1.2: overwrite confirm, transfer speed/ETA, settings + themes, fused macOS titlebar

- Overwrite confirmation: name-collision detection before enqueue; dialog shows
  source vs destination (size, mtime, 'newer' badge) with per-item Skip/Replace
  and batch Skip all / Replace all; type mismatches auto-skip with a toast;
  cancel aborts the whole operation
- Transfer speed + ETA: UI computes smoothed bytes/sec from progress deltas
  (callback bus makes deltas meaningful); shown in the expanded queue rows and
  the status-bar summary; unit follows the speed-unit setting
- Settings: bun-side SettingsStore (settings.json, 0600, atomic) + get/save RPC;
  SettingsService; gear popover on the tab row (theme segmented control, speed
  unit); persisted across restarts
- Light theme: data-theme on <html> drives token overrides; absent = follow OS
- macOS fused titlebar: hiddenInset + trafficLightOffset, tab row becomes the
  draggable titlebar (app-region drag/no-drag classes); other platforms keep a
  separate titlebar (gated by a platform value injected via window preload)
- README: known-issues note for the upstream Bun/Electrobun FFI crash

Verified: tsc + ui build clean; SettingsStore roundtrip + 0600 headless;
app boots and the UI fetches settings over RPC at startup.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

ui/src/app/app.html

@@ -34,6 +34,9 @@
   @if (dialogs.chmod(); as req) {
     <app-chmod-dialog [request]="req" />
   }
+  @if (dialogs.overwrite(); as req) {
+    <app-overwrite-dialog [request]="req" />
+  }
 
   <!-- toasts -->
   <div class="pointer-events-none fixed right-3 bottom-8 z-50 flex w-80 flex-col gap-2">